an old woman whose health has declined to the point that her daughter and
son-in-law have insisted that she move in with them. They do work all
day, but at night they are home and so feel more secure about Grandma's
wellbeing when she is under their roof. Grandma is getting old though, so
sometimes she drops a dish or a couple peas off her fork or spills a glass
of milk. They get annoyed with these little messes and pretty soon tell
her not to help with the dishes anymore. Worse, they put a small table in
the kitchen and set her place there, set it with a wooden bowl, from which
she eats her meals alone.
Not long after, the 8 year old granddaughter was drying dishes as her
mother washed. She exclaimed, "be careful with that wooden bowl, Mommy!"
Her Mom was puzzled at the urgency in the little girl's tone so asked why,
what was the matter. Her daughter explained, as if to say, "duh!", "We
have to take care of that wooden bowl so we can use it when you get old."
Next thing you know, Grandma was lead back to the dining room the next
mealtime, and nobody fussed again about any spills.
This reminds me so much of my Mom. As the oldest of six children, I
cannot tell you how many times I heard, "No, don't do that! How would YOU
like it if someone did that to you?" She made us think about walking in
someone else's shoes; we were brought up thinking about that. Walk a mile
in someone else's moccasins before passing judgment was yet another way of
saying the same thing. It was a family motif.
To me that admonition is the Golden Rule in different words. Love one
another as I have loved you, Jesus said. Love one another as I have loved
you. Think about it for a second. Jesus loved us to death. His own. He
actually allowed men to put nails in his hands and feet and side, hanging
him from a cross. Who does that? Who allows that to happen? Only our
Lord and Saviour, as far as I know. Soldiers die protecting our great
country. Parents die or would die for their children. They come as close
as one can imagine to being like Jesus. Out of great love, they put
themselves in harm's way to defend us. To put it in secular terms, they
put their money where their mouth is. How blessed we are. More, how
loved we are. Thank you, Lord. Thank you for our very lives and thank
you for life everlasting. Help us to cherish your love for us and to tuck
that love in our hearts as we go into your world loving others. Amen.
Judy Bergeson, Diaconal Minister
Salem Lutheran
UPCOMING EVENTS AT SALEM:
Our Community Servant Speaker this Sunday is Jamie Lauer from Heartland
blood. We'll learn more about the need for blood. Salem's next blood
drive is Sat., Feb. 12 from 8 AM till noon. People need to bring a photo
ID. The bloodmobile will be parked in front of Salem.
The Annual Meeting is this Sunday, January 23! We lunch together at noon;
the meeting begins at 12:45. It'll be over in time for the Game.
There is Grief Support Group meeting at 3 PM this Sunday; we will NOT meet
Jan. 30th. In Feb. we go to the once a month meeting schedule, the fourth
Sunday of each month. All are welcome.
The New Member dinner is at 5 PM Sunday, Jan. 30th. Please call the
church office if you are interested!